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Why high-capacity women live braced and how to finally exhale without losing their power.
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You might not have a word for it yet. But your body knows exactly what I mean.
Your jaw is clenched during hard conversations, and you don't even notice anymore.
Your shoulders live somewhere near your ears.
There's a low hum of pressure in your chest that you've started thinking is just... you.
You lie awake even though you're exhausted, running through everything that needs you.
You can't fully relax.
Not on weekends.
Not on holidays.
Not even when nothing is actually wrong.
You hold it together all day then snap at someone you love over something small.
Not because of them. Because you've been gripping since 7am.
You call it being responsible.
Your body calls it survival mode.
Here's what living braced actually looks like:
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And if this keeps going:
"Before working with Estelle I would have been anxious wondering how I was going to get through... instead I felt excited and calm. It was the best 3 weeks of our lives."
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Freedom Embodiment Coach | Integrative Health Practitioner | Breathwork & Meditation Practitioner |Â Somatic & Nervous System Guide
I've spent years studying under the world's leading experts in nervous system science, somatic healing, and integrative health — including Dr Stephen Porges (Polyvagal Theory), Dr Stephen Cabral, and Master Coach Preston Smiles. I've invested hundreds of thousands of dollars and countless hours becoming one of the most well-resourced practitioners in this space.
But the most transformative training I ever received? My own life.
I know what it's like to carry everything — a business, single motherhood, family, the emotional weight of everyone around you — and feel utterly alone in it. Like no one could truly see you, hold you, or meet you where you were. I told myself I didn't need help. That I was strong enough to figure it out alone.
What I didn't realise was that it wasn't loneliness keeping people out. It was armour. And I had built mine so thick, so strong, so convincing — that even I believed it was just who I was.
When I finally walked away from an engagement and the life I'd constructed around it, I was left with one confronting question: who am I outside of all these roles? That unravelling became my greatest teacher.
Through my own healing — learning to regulate my nervous system, reconnect to my body, and reclaim the parts of myself I'd long abandoned — I discovered that real power doesn't come from pushing through. It comes from wholeness.
That's the work I now bring to women like you. Bridging cutting-edge body-based science with deep soul wisdom — holding space for nervous system repair, emotional release, and a true return to self.
You don't need to be fixed. You just need to feel safe enough to be fully you.
"I was living in fight or flight mode all my life... for the first time I felt like I could breathe."
And no strategy, no time management system, no amount of willpower is going to fix a nervous system that never learned to stand down.
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In 60 minutes, you will:
"During my time coaching I made the decision to leave a relationship I knew wasn't right for me. Having Estelle's unwavering love and support to tap into my truth and honour myself in that moment was incredible."
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"I was able to recognize and shed old masks, release performance-based ways of being... I am not my wounds. I am not bad or wrong. I am human. I always have the choice to show up differently."